#Siri berdialog dgn AqiL Hakeem

Ibu : *Tgh siap2 nk g work dlm bilik*

Aqil : ibu..amikkn baju aqil tu ngn baju ariq tu ibu... Nak pakai laa, ibu pakaikan ariq skali.... Ok dah hensem pun!! *perasaan ke budak ni? ^___^ sweater tebal lark tuh yg dipilih hahar

Ibu : aqil nak g mana?

Aqil : nak g soping... Sambil ajak ariq jom dik... *wah!! kemain bdk ni ^___^

Sebelum kluar tu...ibu, bye bu salamekom..bye...aqil nk g kije..... *pulak*

Siap salam kiss2, ariq pun mengikut je ape abg nye buat...... 

Aqil : suuh adik naik beskal skali ngn die *baru pusing seround dah turun -*masuk bilik ckp, ibu penatlah......

Ibu : eh! Dah sampai? Aqil2 g mana tadi? wat2 tyn

Aqil : g soping laa......

Ibu : soping kt mna? G kejap jer dh blk?

Aqil : g soping kat jauh td.... Jauh kt sana tu 'sesco'... *hahaha ^___^ mcm2 *sigh*

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: The Truth About Toddler Development

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

The Truth About Toddler Development

Toddler milestones are an important measurement of your child's physical and mental development. Remember that reaching a milestone early on or later on is not an indication of future brilliance or future problems. The most important thing is to see steady progress. Children who were born premature may reach milestones a little later, and some children may go through periods of regression for emotional reasons. "If you are concerned about your child's development, discuss it with your pediatrician, and most times, they will be able to reassure you," advises Parsons.

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TIPS | Air dan Pasir Ubat Buat Anak Yang Penakut (Bhg. 1)

Anak yang penakut boleh juga dikaitkan dengan fobia atau dilema mereka terhadap sesuatu situasi yang pernah mencemaskan emosi mereka. Ada disebabkan selalu mendapat ‘mind tortured’, mangsa buli adik-beradik atau kawan di taska dan sebagainya.

A) Teknik Air
Air antara perkara yang menyeronokkan buat anak-anak. Apatah lagi bila diberi peluang bermain air dalam bilik air ataupun air hujan.

Berlainan bagi anak yang penakut, terapi air boleh digunakan untuk mengembalikan keyakinan diri mereka daripada perkara-perkara yang menakutkan.

Caranya :

1. Tadahkan air dalam besen atau tab mandi di rumah. Ajar anak untuk kocak-kocakkan air tersebut untuk mengukuhkan kemahiran motor mereka. Ia juga secara tak langsung untuk mengurangkan tekanan dan ketakutan anak.
2. Selang beberapa hari, belikan kolam renang yang boleh mereka bermain bersama adik-beradik atau kawan yang lain. Bagi mereka ada interaksi sosial yang membuatkan mereka seronok dan minda mereka juga tenang.
3. Kemudian, buat percubaan pertama kali untuk membawa mereka ke taman tema air/waterpark dengan memberi gambaran seronok bermain di situ pada hari sebelumnya. Buatkan mereka tak sabar. Mungkin pada permulaannya, mereka akan tarik diri dan takut untuk mencuba, pujuk baik-baik sambil sentiasa memeluk mereka untuk mengurangkan ketakutan anak.
4. Apabila mereka semakin berani, bawalah pula ke pantai untuk mereka bermandi di laut sebagai terapi terakhir mengurangkan sikap penakut mereka. Lakukan aktiviti ini secara konsisten inshaAllah kita pasti mendapat hasil yang memuaskan. Anak semakin berani dan kedepan.

Selamat mencuba ! With love  Teacher Ayu dari Excel Qhalif

Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Language of Toddlers

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Language for Toddlers

"Language milestones can be quite disparate among individual kids, but we look for three words by 15 months and two-word sentences by age 2. These are sentences like 'me go,' 'more milk,' or 'me up.' Most speech should be about 50 percent understandable by age 2. Most children should be able to follow a one-part command by age 15 months, a two-part command by age 18 months, and name a few pictures by age 3," explains Parsons. By the age of 3, your child should have a vocabulary of several hundred words.

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Coordination at 36 Months

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Coordination at 36 Months

"A toddler may throw a ball overhand after age 3, and most 3-year-olds can draw a circle," says Parsons. By age 3, your toddler has much better balance and has all 20 primary teeth. Potty training should be well along. The tricycle should be no problem now and getting up and down stairs with alternating feet is to be expected. Your 3-year-old should now be able to help you with simple chores around your home.

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Jumping at 30 Months

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Jumping at 30 Months

"At age 2 ½, most children can jump. In terms of fine motor skills, most 2- to 3-year-olds can copy a vertical line," notes Parsons. Other toddler developments to look for between ages 2 and 3 include continued potty training with some accidents, initial adventures on a tricycle, being able to squat and boost, and getting dressed with some help. You can also start to expect some temper tantrums and to hear the word "no" frequently.

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Kicking and Potty Training at 24 Months

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Kicking and Potty Training at 24 Months

"Most children are coordinated enough on their feet to kick a ball by age 2," says Parsons. Walking should be no problem now and toddlers should be running with more control. Your child may be able to open doorknobs and start to take off some of their own clothes. This is the age when most children are ready to start potty training. At age 2 your child has grown to approximately half of their future adult height.

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Running at 18 Month

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Running at 18 Months

"As a general rule most children are running by 18 months. Social milestones include being able to imitate the activities of parents and siblings," says Parsons. Running may still be clumsy, and they can still fall down frequently. Toddler development at this stage includes some control of potty functions, but they may not be ready psychologically for potting training yet. Other milestones may include walking up stairs while holding on.

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Walking alone at 15 Months

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Walking Alone at 15 Months

"Important milestones in toddler development at 15 months include walking without help, playing interactive games like patty-cake, and rolling a ball back and forth," notes Parsons. Other toddler development milestones may include sitting down from a standing position, squatting, and pushing or pulling toys around the house. At this age toddlers may wave goodbye, turn pages in a book, and be able to stack several blocks. Some toddlers may be able to bend over and pick a toy up without losing their balance.

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Crawling and Scribbling at 12 Month

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

By Chris Iliades, MD

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Crawling and Scribbling at 12 Months

At 12 months, most toddlers have tripled their birth weight and are pulling themselves up to stand. Crawling around the house is no problem and they may be able to walk with some help. Toddlers’ development milestones at 12 months include banging two blocks together and being able to sit without help. "In terms of fine motor skills, most 1-year-olds can scribble with a crayon. Important social milestones include pointing with a finger to indicate wants," says Dr. Parsons.

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Must-Know Toddler Milestones :: Important Toddler Milestones

Important Toddler Milestones

Each toddler develops a little differently, but there are some important milestones that you'll want to record. Find out what to expect in your toddler's development and when.

Important Toddler Milestones

The first three years of a child’s life are an exciting time full of rapid change. Gross motor, fine motor, social, and language skills all develop, marking different milestones in your child’s life. "Milestones are only guidelines, however, and each child is different," says Melissa Parsons, MD, a pediatrician at the Ohio State University Medical Center in Columbus. "It is important not to place too much emphasis on comparing one child to another. Your child may meet milestones a little earlier or later.”

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Parents' top potty training tips

Wondering if your child will ever leave his nappy days behind? Here are some creative ways to make potty training a bit easier.

Before you start potty training

"Plan some interesting activities which will occupy your child, preferably in a small space. Do them quite close to the potty, for the first few days, so they get comfortable being around it. I bought some new puzzles and cheap sticker books which Amber loved." 
Eloise 

"Make sure your little one is aware of the potty, and what it's for, before you decide to start. Try lots of reading about potties, as well as talking about wees and poos. That way it becomes a normal part of life." 
Daniel 

Musical motivation

"We made up a potty song that we sang every time our daughter sat on the potty. She loved it. When she finished, we would sing a different song, saying what she had done. It wasn't too long before she used the potty every time." 
Christie 

"We found a brilliant potty which played music when my son sat on it. It worked like a dream. We'd had so much trouble prior to this, and I think making it entertaining helped." 
Lizzie 

Make going potty fun

"We put a flushable item, such as shaving foam, in the toilet, and our son just had to aim and shoot. Rewards were based on accuracy. It was fun and challenging, and did wonders for his precision! With poos, he had to send in the backup troops to finish the job with torpedoes. I doubt this would work when potty training girls, but Alex took less than a week to be fully potty-trained." 
Roxanne 

"We dyed the toilet water with red or blue food colouring. When it changed to orange or green he loved knowing that he'd caused it!" 
Anna 

"Lucy and I went to the bookshop, and she chose three picture books she really liked. We called these the potty books, and she could read them only when she sat on the potty. " 
Amy 

"The best incentive for Sam was letting him flush away the contents of his potty when he managed to go. The rule was that this is the only time he gets to flush the toilet. A much cheaper reward than toys!" 
Deanne 

Toys and treats

"We put a few toys and stickers in a sparkly gift bag. Every time our daughter used the potty, we would clap and let her pick one surprise out of the bag. We kept it up for about 10 days. When the surprises ran out she just kept on using the potty. We kept up the clapping and praise, and she quickly forgot the surprise bag. Potty training was surprisingly painless and quick." 
Lottie 

"If Megan successfully used the potty, she could have two white chocolate buttons. Within a month she was using the potty regularly, with only a few accidents, and by two-and-a-half she was trained." 
Lisa 

"At 16 months we started sitting Kelly's teddies on the loo and explaining to her that they didn't need nappies because they used the potty like Mummy and Daddy. Suddenly Kelly wanted to use the potty, just like her beloved teddies!" 
Tara 

"To encourage our son Alex to use the potty, we put a drawing of a racetrack on the wall. Every time he used the potty he got to put a sticker on the racetrack. When the racetrack was filled with stickers, he got to pick a small toy as a reward." 
Cheryl

Put your child in charge

"When my two-year-old started going into the bathroom and closing the door, I knew she was ready to potty train. I would let her go in and use her potty, dump it into the big toilet, and put it up in the shower stall for me to rinse out." 
Kat 

"When my son Ben stopped using nappies, we used a timer to help us both remember to use the potty. We started with every 45 minutes and gradually increased the time. Eventually, he would tell me he needed to go before the timer went off, or say he didn't need to when it did. Then we'd set the timer for another half an hour and try again." 
Beth 

"We used an app which makes a sound at selected intervals, and can be personalised, so he gets to see that it's 'time for Toby to go'! It helped me to remember, as much as Toby." 
Jo 

"Our daughter was two-and-a-half when we finally got her trained, though it wasn't easy. She wanted to wear knickers, but not use the potty. So we finally just said she could go ahead and do what she wanted. Two days later, she started using the potty on her own, with no encouragement from us!" 
Natalie 

"Letting her control when she goes helps. We ask every half hour or so, but if she says 'no', we leave it a bit longer." 
Charlie 

Sitting solution

"We put Nathan on the toilet backwards, so he had the back of the toilet to hold on to. He could also do a poo that way, too. He thought that it was such fun he wanted to do it all the time. It took him a month to get the hang of it, and now he's happily standing up to wee." 
Melissa 

"I let my daughter sit on the toilet with a training seat, as she preferred this to sitting on a potty. She was also happier if I gave her a book to read whilst she was doing this." 
Joanne 

"We bought Sam a potty the other day, just for him to get used to it. We sit him on it first thing in the morning and just before his bath most days." 
Kate 

Minimise mess and stress

"If accidents happen, try not to get upset, or involve your little one in the cleaning of the mess. William was wet up to three times a day for a whole week when he was nearly four. I found it hard to keep my cool, but he always reacted better when I was calm and positive." 
Josephine 

"It just needs a lot of praise when they do it right and a relaxed 'oh dear, never mind' if they get it wrong. My little one was put off if I made a big deal of accidents and didn't want to try again." 
Sally 

"I bought four or five of the cheapest potties I could find and placed each in an area of the house where my son spent the most time, including his play area and bedroom. This way, he wouldn't have very far to go when he had to go." 
Mei Leng 

"Buy some cheap tracksuit bottoms, as they're easy to pull up and down, and to wash!" 
Alice 

"Focus on the achievements, rather than the accidents. I gave my daughter lots of praise: 'What a big-girl thing to do!', 'You must be very proud of yourself', 'Do you want to call Granny to tell her?', 'Give me a high five!', and so on." 
Kirsten 

The power of proper pants

"My son was fully potty-trained at three, except he wouldn't do a poo in the toilet. I tried everything. One day we were shopping and he asked for boxers. I told him that if we got these he would have to use the toilet or it would get all over the place. That seemed to be the magic thing, because ever since then, he has had no more accidents." 
Susie 

"I let my daughter wear undies every day until naptime, and I put plastic pants over them to prevent messes. In the beginning she wet several times a day and didn't like the feeling. I also gave her 10p for her piggy bank every time she sat on the potty. She was trained by 20 months." 
Rose 

"I let my son choose some pants with his favourite character, Thomas the Tank Engine, on them. Then I told him not to get Thomas wet. It worked really well!" 
Maria 

"Take your little one shopping and let her pick out some knickers for her to wear around the house instead of nappies. She will soon realise when's she's wet." 
Emily 

"We put pants underneath Molly's nappy so she could feel when she'd wet them. The nappy meant we didn't have to clean up accidents." 
Martin 

No more nappies

"My daughter tortured me for months, using the potty successfully one day, then demanding nappies the next. I told her that the pack of nappies we had just bought was the last, and I wasn't buying any more. When we got down to the last few nappies, I again emphasised that when they were gone, there wouldn't be any more. We then went on to training pants, with disposable ones at night. She had a few accidents the first week, but has been trained ever since!" 
Emily 

"Resist the temptation of using disposable training pants all the time. Children don't get uncomfortable when they are wet, and it prolongs potty training." 
Sophie 

"My two-year-old informed me that she didn't want her nappy on, as it was uncomfortable. She has been dry since then, with very few accidents. The key is to use cloth nappies, which can be too bulky for a newly-walking child to want to have on. Not to mention the wet flannel feeling!" 
Beth 

"I put my daughter in dresses for about three weeks with no nappy or pants underneath, while we were potty training. It was easier for her to get ready for the potty, and allowed quick decisions when she was in the middle of playing." 
Sarah 

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19th month

Your 19-month-old's development

A more adult view of the world

At around 19 months, your toddler will begin to understand when things don't conform to grown-up ideas. She'll laugh at something that's obviously wrong -- like calling a giraffe a zebra or calling a brother a sister. She'll also recognise when something isn't how it should be, like a stuffed bear with an eye missing or a new stain on the carpet. 

Growing vocabulary

Although you're probably still understanding less than half of what your toddler says, she's beginning to understand most of the words you use around her. She's also having a vocabulary spurt and putting together pairs of words, like "Me go" or "You put." 

Bossiness and negotiation

To reduce power struggles as your toddler strives for independence, make sure you treat her the way you'd like to be treated. Try compromise instead of commands. Instead of "you can't go outside now," you might say, "we can read a book now and go outside later." Instead of "you must pick up the blocks before dinner," you could make it into a game: "I'll pick up the puzzle pieces while you pick up the blocks." 

Socialising

Your toddler will get all the stimulation she needs from unstructured play, so you can steer clear of formal lessons until she's at least three or older. Mother and toddler groups, and playing in friends' houses give her a chance to play near other children, but don't expect children to play with each other at this age. 

18th month

Your 18-month-old's development

On the move
Your 18-month-old is becoming a proficient walker. He may motor up stairs with help and likes to climb all over your furniture. He'll try to kick a ball, though he won't always be successful. He probably likes to dance if you play music, and will push and turn buttons and knobs if they're in reach. 

Is he ready for toilet training?
Before a child can learn to use a potty, he must develop the sensory awareness that allows him to hold in his urine or bowel movements. Most toddlers don't learn this until they are at least 18 months old. You'll have much better success if you wait until your child is showing all the signs of readiness before you start potty training. 

Developing memory and imagination
Somewhere between 18 months and 24 months your toddler will begin to show that he can think about things that aren't present. For example, he'll no longer be confused if you hide an object while he watches and then move it to another spot when he's looking away. After he discovers it's not where he thought it was, he'll keep searching. 

Comfort objects and habits
For a toddler, a favourite stuffed toy is a great source of comfort. He might also have some habits that soothe him -- like twirling his hair, rocking or sucking his thumb. Most children naturally outgrow these things by the time they're four, so there's no need to intervene now. 

Discipline
If you reward good behaviour and do not reward bad behaviour, your child will quickly learn right from wrong. You could try to model the behaviour you hope to foster in your children, because they will learn by copying you. If you make a rule, like never allowing your child to leave the garden without an adult, then stick to it, and never let him risk it. He will soon remember that it is taboo. 

Immunisation update
At 18 months, your toddler will be offered a booster vaccine for diphtheria, tetanus, pertussis (whooping cough), polio and Haemophilus influenzae type b (Hib). If you live in Sarawak, your toddler will also be due for another JE shot. You can find out about them on Immunisations page. [LINK]

17th month

Your 17-month-old's development

: my 17th mth liL AQil 

: Semenjak ni liL AQil dah tido kat katil die sendiri (: rasenya dia lagi suker dan yg paling penting lagi puas die tido...*termasuk ibunye juge suke³!!!* sebab ruang yg banyak dan besar disediakan tuk dier...ehehe walaupun katil single die seblh katil queen aku jer *aqil tido sgt lasak ok* tak brani plak nk letak jauh ^_^ lg pun kadang² jer die bangun mlm berjalan kt aku sambil mata tutup tapi cakap nk nenen..ahaha klu tak die g kt ayah die nak susu-klu tak die mintak susu pagi² dah nak subuh...the rest sepanjang mlm die tido shj...*beshhkan*

Milestones 

At 17 months, most toddlers have mastered a handful of words, and some might even be combining words. Your toddler might also be able to take off her dress by herself or pretend to feed her doll. Some children this age are learning to brush their teeth with help. 

Categorises objects 

Your toddler will begin to recognise how toys and other objects are similar and how they are different. As she plays, you'll find that she likes to sort them into piles by colour, shape, and type. 

Modelling manners 

If "no" hasn't already become her favourite word, your child will begin using it with a vengeance about now. It's probably a good time to work on manners. Demonstrate the type of consideration you want your toddler to develop. Say please if you want her to do things, and thank her when she does. It is a good idea to try to convey the basic principle of the importance of showing respect. "Please" and "thank you" are not meant to be parrot fashion responses; they should show concern and involvement. 

16th month

Your 16-month-old's development
: bila anak ibu dah 16 bulan...weee~ selain dh pandai wat perangai Tantrumsnya (saborrr je laa ibu) the rest tgk pic nih :-

1. : mase kecik² x mo naik
tetiba nk dpt adik nih
suke plak naek wallker
aqiL²

2. : dah pandai cicah sendiri
dah...alalala~

3. : nie yg paling beshh
rajin² tolong ibu
yer abg aqiL

Games toddlers play 

At 16 months, your toddler may like scribbling, enjoys helping you around the house, and may be able to put his finger to his lips and say "shhhh." He also likes peekaboo, stacking blocks, and playing body part games like "Where's baby's nose?" He's probably willing to co-operate with dressing and, about this time, he'll begin to take an interest in going up and down stairs -- though he may not navigate them alone for a few more months. 

The challenge of mastery; feelings of powerlessness 

Your 16-month-old still isn't that good at accomplishing the tasks he takes on. He misjudges the depth of a stair or gets his feet tangled when he tries to climb up into your lap. Building basic human skills is a frustrating business, and your toddler is struggling to feel in control.

Tantrums are natural 

Sometimes your toddler's feelings will overwhelm him, and he'll have a tantrum. It's impossible for him to stop the rush of tears and anger in the middle. Remember, he only has one way to let off steam. Unlike you, he can't channel it into something else like a workout at the gym. So during a tantrum, be patient, available, and willing to offer comfort or leave him alone, whatever he needs. 

Reading with your child 

If you've been reading to your child since infancy, sharing a story together can be a calming experience. Let him choose the book -- even one you've read a million times. Together you can point out and name animals, objects, and colours.